Kirstin, I think you can respond simply and directly with “Thank you for your note. We understand your decision.” I’m not sure it’s necessary to try and make nice or ease your conscience about this. Trust your instincts and don’t feel the need to ‘care’ for her. Her words from beginning to end all seem a bit too smooth and practiced and she chose this…don’t take it on yourself. Chalk it up to experience and move on.
Alice
Oct 30 2003
03:15 pm
Kirstin, I think you can respond simply and directly with “Thank you for your note. We understand your decision.” I’m not sure it’s necessary to try and make nice or ease your conscience about this. Trust your instincts and don’t feel the need to ‘care’ for her. Her words from beginning to end all seem a bit too smooth and practiced and she chose this…don’t take it on yourself. Chalk it up to experience and move on.