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sex before "marriage"?

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GoDrama
Jan 10 2003
09:07 pm

this probably comes from not having a relationship at this kind of level, but how exactly do you know for sure that this person you’re with is the one you are going to marry? Could someone answer this for me without the you “just know” answer?

I think the danger in saying that something like this is okay is that two (proabably inexperienced) people can easily make the mistake of saying “we’re in love, and we’re going to get married anyway, so why not” even if they are not ready, and really don’t know what love is.